The answer is within you
A fascinating conversation after a long drive, freshed up my mind.
It was a sweet lady who sparked the conversation, the story went this way. She went for a music carnival, and I’m not sure what happened in between, she was invited to the VIP box where food and beverage was provided, free flow, and served.
Now what happen was, although the VIPs there were friendly, and she was having fun with the atmosphere and music and of course, the company of so many successful people, but she still felt that something is not right.
She felt that she was not belongs to this group.
Story ends here, I know, I’m not a good story teller.
Is the story sounds familiar to you? You see, the problem here is, you may start questioning, why these people can be so successful but not me? And what should I do in order to achieve where they are now? How can I join the group and be part of it?
The answer is within you.
Still remember how was the first day you went to school? I mean primary school. You did not know everyone, you asked your parents, why these people look so strange to me, and I do not know how to make friends with them! Bingo, you made best friends with this “stranger” group until today, and this could be the friendship that you treasure the most.
Or maybe another example, you 1st went to university, from outside, the seniors from “that” group looked so superior and smart, even they came to talk to you and they were friendly, but you still find something wrong, as you don’t feel like you’re one of them.
We all know about the theory of seeding since we were kids, and we have been doing it well. We have the answers for all the things that we’re seeking for, but just sometimes, we do not believe in ourselves.
Trust me, you know what you need to do, but maybe you need someone more experienced to guide you through part of the journey, so go and seek for them. Many people will start doubting, and that’s it. They just believe that they are not belong to “that” group, and walked away silently. To me it is very simple, this is our life, we decide what is going to happen to us.
All of these starts from you, start to believe in yourself, and start finding the answer within you.
(another rambling post after few weeks of busy-ness)
(Originally from JasonGan.com - May 7, 2008)
